My wife is the oldest of four kids. Her parents were once asked at a birthing class if they had any advice for the rookies.
My father-in-law stood up and addressed the group:
“Look, you’re going to want to throw it out the window… and that’s okay! The important thing is that you don’t.”
Then he sat back down.
After all these years, it’s still the greatest parenting advice I’ve ever heard.
(I thought the advice and this zine spoke to each other.)